BBW Part 2

This is a follow-up to my first blog post (which is dealing with big beautiful women and feederism) providing some information from the point of view of women who are part of the BBW and/or feederism culture.

Kira Nerusskaya, a Fat activist and self-described BBW says that most men reject overweight women because they’re “large, and that’s because they were taught fat is bad. Therefore, the person inside is also bad. Then we have a portion of men who are fetishists, in that they only receive heightened sexual pleasure from being with a fat girl. Then you have people who might be ‘Feeders’, they have an interest in making you bigger. Then you have the guys who want to make you smaller; that’s their mission.” On the other hand “there are men who like a larger bosom, the larger bottom, and they want more of it. They see in a BBW that we have more of it, and they want to try it. They are interested to walk down that road just to see what it’s like. Part fantasy, part interest, part curiosity. Maybe, to them, it’s just the freak factor– in their head we are freaks because we aren’t thin.”

Is it accepted when men fetishize fat women or is that seen as a negative? “It depends. There are guys who are called an “FAs,” which stands for Fat Admirer. He likes women who are big. There are those FAs who find that that’s just their preference. Then there are those for whom it’s kind of a — it’s a fetish. For example, one woman I know only wants men who are Fat Admirers because she feels that they accept or enjoy her body at another level than somebody else.”

Do feedees agree that fat sexuality leads to objectification of women? Amanda, one of the authors of the blog called Feedee World answers with a “maybe”. “All heterosexual practices on some level objectify women. Why do some people prefer blondes or taller partners? Why do some people prefer big busts or nice butts? Where does the line between physical preference end and erotization of the human body begin? Feederism and Fat Admiration straddle this line.”

Molly Ren is practitioner a of the feederism fetish. She is a dominant feeder, what means she “likes to feed boys by hand until their tummies bulge out and they cry for mercy…” As she says, “most of feeders agree that food is sensual; eating or watching others eat is erotic, and that fat or distended bellies and bodies are hot.”

Being a size 18 she says she’s “big for a normal chick, small by the standards of some boys” she has talked to. It’s hard to say whether she’s more attracted to people who are bigger or smaller than her. She enjoys being bigger and having the illusion of being more physically powerful than her partner. On the other hand when she was with someone larger, she really enjoyed being able to bury herself in him and feel tiny and girly. Molly’s ideal partner is “any adorable boy with a little extra weight around the tummy area”.

Although now she can get turned on by the sensation of being full, she has never thought about food issues from her childhood in conjunction with her fetish. “Food was never used as reward/punishment, and I don’t remember being told to clean my plate, but I don’t have many pleasant memories of food in childhood. Family dinner was an extremely boring time for me when I had to sit still for what felt like 1,000 hours and eat horrible food—mushy veggies, bland entrees and mainly packaged food—until the last couple years, when I taught myself how to cook out.” Molly thinks that her early experiences with badly prepared food might make her less receptive to food than other feederists.

Sources: http://bit.ly/wij9zo, http://bit.ly/9cBkmt, http://bit.ly/bZ4gwT

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: